The other side of the Heedonic matches: When life is a life

My journey with craninopharyengioma started in the autumn of 2021, shortly after my fourth child.

I felt so tired, I got some weight, and I just got life and just born. Labs have been found to investigate these symptoms showing the lowest level of testosterone, which finally led the craninopharylingioma test – a tumor in the local brain. On February 2022, I re-recovered the complete resolution of surgery. The results were the best thing: We’ve got the tumor my pituitary work was the biggest thing (I needed testosterone and Levostroxine instead of a third-time nerve), and was settled within six months.
I and the surgeon I believed I was healed. Clear Multipper MRS strengthened that belief, and I continued life, thanks and optimism. I even joined my story on the White Coast Invest Captoc Podcast Podcast Episode, sure that was just the past.
Forward in the summer of 2025. I started to feel. . . off.
It was not a wonderful thing at the beginning of the lowest strength and realistic logic that I couldn’t be my best. Then, I realized that I was urinating more often than usual and I feel a little dryer than normal. I hit it at a busy summer heat or system.
Anyway, I decided to get tested labs. At the same time, I saw my opinion was a little bit of darkness. The visual check pointed out an old pattern of BituPoloral Hemianopia – a loss of a peripheral vision on both sides. That motivated Mad Dash to find MRI.
The result was the Pun Punch: My cranicopharyengima is back. And in this case it was too big.
In the following church, the picture became more complex. My pituitary work failed completely. In addition to Testosreerone and Levothyroxine I just took my first surgery, I had diabetes Instiipidus and adrenal tribulation. I will need to restore all Putuitary Hormones – almost permanently – and treat me carefully how I drink, what works I have done, and how I change my steroids and DDARS and DDARS and DDARR AND DDAVPs.
I escaped repeated surgery, but the risk of important injuries with the second performance was very high – and the issues of completely deletion without repetitive behavior. Finally, I started a braf against the Braf and Med Invibiter – it is actually a chemotherapy oral form. And like everything else, I thought the worst: Evil possible consequences, I feel bad at all times, and I work slowly.
At the moment, far, a few weeks after my diagnosis, it was not so bad. Yes, there are bad consequences, but there was nothing close to the day day, the daily distress I symbolize. It was another memorial that, it would be healthier or financially, our minds are quick to think about the worst future – and to remember our ability to agree.
Expectation was worse than fact (so far)
During those first few days after being found in the second cranopharylingioma, my mind went into dark places. I am illustrating the future when my health is weak, limited, and is controlled by medical management about sodium concerns, liquids, and detoid dosing. I thought I had to lose my opinion completely, I’m permanently disabled, and I don’t do things to do – I always tend to become my disease. It was some time when we think that the loss of jobs, market crash, or divorce to destroy it forever.
No deny that my life has changed in basic ways. But my surprise, the truth – while it’s hard – it didn’t mistreat them as feared. Even the target treatment I presented has already happened. And that restored me to the thought I had written to you: Change of Hedonic.
Adapting to Hedonion Conditions: Good New Tuesday

Most of us get used to a hedonicon conversion to its “Good News Fades form. You are buying a new car, the world is dreaming of a dream, or passing on your beautiful home. More happy. . . temporarily. Then, return to your base.
Since it usually discusses the white coat, this is playing all time in medicine. New doctors – in fact, not just new doctors, but doctors in all categories – often buy more on how to jump in revenue, they expect to increase lasting infections. It can be a great house, a luxurious car, or a dream holiday. But Bump in happiness is passing, and soon they get used to their new lifestyle. That is one of the reasons Dr Jim Dead and others advised doctors to expand the expense gradual expense, allowing their financial position to be strengthened when they avoid the snare of excessive industry.
But there is a famous flip side: The same conversion is working back. Bad things also endanger their impact. We are afraid that they will make us grievous forever, but our emotional point draws us right away than we expect. I have seen this in other life seasons, and including the divorce I wrote from the previous column – and in time, I found that life could repeatedly.
Psychology Supports this. In one famous research, researchers contrast the joy of lottery winners and the recent spinal cords. In less than a year, both levels of funnel for taved groups are underway towards basic distance. Other lessons have found the same pattern behind the divorce, loss of functions and serious illness.
Of course, not all serious difficulties, and a loss of something completely changes our daily lives. However, our minds are very good in normal finding.
More information here:
Hedonia vs Eudaimonia
Can extra money make me more happy?
Adapting to me at real time
As I wrote this column, I am still plentiful between this. In the early days after the diagnosis of all the sharp object as I thought – fear, sadness, anger and uncertainity all hits at the same time. The emotional weight was heavy, and that is so. But something unexpectedly has already happened. I heard the first signs of revenge back on my base.
Managing Panhypopitistism, which I have illustrated as permanent problems, has not been as bad as I think. Hormone restoration becomes normal. Even the intended treatment I thought would leave me sick and disabled so far. There is still much to carry, and I know there will be stone roads, with problems and surprises.
However, the stability of those original feelings have begun to disappear. Day-day management is sounding not only less than they scared. Next to the flexibility of flexibility, I also find that I hope my faith in God, who fools themselves uncertainty, and power in the love and support of family and friends. Life is still weight, but also happy, purpose, and ordinary times – and that is something that I did not expect to feel soon.
Why does this fulfill money and medicine
With your money
We make the same mistake when we think financial obstacles. We find a picture of losing our jobs, facing the crash of the market, or it is even shaken, and we think it’s reporting for years. The truth often differs. We adapt, find new ways, and restart normal normal. Knowing this can help you take the jobs listed – to change risk, starting a business, or retirement early without fear of Jehovah “.
By the tree

As a doctor, we all saw patients to agree with unexpected diagnosis or health changes. However, newly found room often believes that their lives diminish permanently. Before my multiplication, I understood her heedonic attitude from the attitude of the curriculum – especially the “good news”.
The experiences have increased my empathy for the divorced sensitivity or fear, and it allows me to be devoted to something as a sense of loneliness, and soon more than they think.
More information here:
Finance lessons learned from the doctor and turned the patient
My latest Tumor’s diagnosis has made me look at my money
Why do I write this now
I write this for about two weeks I get my diagnosis – not because I have found everything, “you are the most important.
I am in the middle of uncertainty. My tumor is still there, and my medicines last. I don’t know what the future holds. But I’ve already found I approached my base than before I’ve predicted the first bad days.
So stronger than you think. And when it happened too bad, there is a good chance it will not be bad – or permanent – as scared.
Have you experienced a hedonic conversion by returning? How long did it take you back to normal? Is there a particular comfort for possible and it will be better?



